A famous biologist, who had unsuccesfully tried to teach a monkey to play ball, decided as a last resort to leave the little animal alone in a room with a bat and a ball. He close the door, waited a moment, and then, very quietly, stooped and peered through a keyhole. He found himself staring into an intent brown eye. The monkey was no less curious than he.

Moral lesson:
We must not enforce our will on other people. Man is created with distinct abilities and endowed with the gift of awareness. Being unique makes individuals differ in views, aspirations, response to a certain situation and methodology of solving problems. Like for the instance in a relationship, many falls into the pitfall of having their partner changed into their own liking. Enforcing change to somebody that is unique and inherent to that person constitutes coercion.

Uniqueness in ourselves is inherent and with divine providence. It is not to be change by anybody.